Do our kids need limits? Yes! Do they thank us when we set them? No! What do they do instead? They whine and argue. They negotiate and beg. They apologize
I am standing in the kitchen getting breakfast ready for my family… Palmer (6) is banging on the counter with an action figure while he asks for a drink. Landon
This approach creates more of what parents want (kids getting along) instead of constantly punishing the behavior we don’t want (fighting). By using positive reinforcement, we’re shaping the environment to encourage harmony among siblings, making parenting a bit more enjoyable for everyone.
When we’re calm, our brains work better and we’re more likely to use the parenting strategies we know. But once we’re on the edge, it’s like an oil spill: the pressure builds, and suddenly it’s impossible to hold back, leading to a “spill” of anger that coats everything in guilt and tension. Parental yelling is no different—it’s best prevented before it starts.
Letting go of parenting expectations has brought more peace to our family. Instead of holding them to my invisible script, I aim to appreciate them as they are in each moment. My sons may not always behave perfectly, but embracing their real personalities has helped me enjoy this journey so much more.
On my kids’ first day of school this year, I dropped off my high schooler first. How did we get here already? Parenting a high schooler always seemed like something
Here are tried-and-true parenting tips to manage sibling bickering during those long summer days. 1. The Bicker Jar A Bicker Jar can be a lifesaver when siblings start arguing. Each
1. Speak Your Family’s Love Language Understanding your family’s love language is essential for building a strong bond. Read The Five Love Languages of Children, a quick and insightful book
Ten years ago, when my children were still young, we began a family gratitude ritual that has become one of our most cherished traditions. It all started because I wanted
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